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Lani V. Cox's avatar

Yes, like Yi, I can totally relate to my mom asking me "Have you eaten yet?" and to ask that question myself as an expat living in SEA to the myriad of people I regularly come across. It's Asia's equivalent to Western's "How are you?"

I'm not a mother, as it wasn't a calling for me. It's also possible I can't have children as I've never gotten pregnant. In any case, I can tell how much you want to do EVERYTHING for them. It makes sense that you want the best aspects of each culture.

As a teacher who has taught all ages, I will say, be forgiving of yourself and gentle, too. But you know that already, xo

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Rachel Ooi's avatar

Hi Lani, have you eaten yet? :)

Thank you, yes I know that already but it's good to be reminded to be compassionate to myself :) xo

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Lani V. Cox's avatar

I have eaten, thanks. 😊 Here’s to a self-care filled weekend! xo

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